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🗓️ Dates: January 6, 8 & 13
📍 Format: Live calls + Private Telegram Community
✨ Duration: 7 days
🙏 Investment: $22
Intimacy Unlocked is an immersive experience that both activates connection and deepens intimacy in your most important relationships.
🗝️ The Partner Attunement Practice - A simple way to come into resonance - anywhere, anytime. And maybe with anyone.
🗝️ Partner Awareness and Sensitivity practice - Here we practice feeling and seeing with a partner - under the surface. This simple practice builds polarity and attraction - reliably.
🗝️ The Partner Conflict to Connection Practice - A must have skill to go beyond the honeymoon, and to avoid the pitfall of a good enough relationship based on avoiding conflict or the repeat cycle of escalation and collapse
🗝️ The Integration and Invitation - Guided integration of your experience and an invitation to our signature program that will combine practice + powerful and effective structures to ensure inevitable success in creating intimacy
🗝️ Real Practice With Real People - We take what is presented and practice in real time - right on the call, implementing what you learned immediately
🗝️ Direct Guidance & Feedback - From life partners who live this - day in and out
🔥 3 Live Calls with Tom & Amanda (90 mins each)
Call 1: Sensitivity & Awareness
January 6th | 12 noon EST / 6 pm CET
Call 2: Conflict to Connection
January 8th | 12 noon EST / 6 pm CET
Call 3: Integration & Invitation
January 13th | 12 noon EST / 6 pm CET
All calls are recorded. Replay access if you can't join live.
💬 Private Telegram Community
A living, relational field of daily presence, reflection, and practice.
This is where you stay in the work - naming what’s real, being met, and integrating what’s unfolding in real time. Wins are celebrated and moments of friction become portals for intimacy.
You’ll be held inside a community of like-minds and hearts committed to honesty, growth, and love as a lived practice - where accountability is resourcing, connection is alive, and your capacity for intimacy is activated.
✨ Guided Orientation
An opening transmission to orient you to our space and the practices we’ll be working with - shared in Telegram.
We met midlife, at a retreat in Vancouver, B.C. - neither of us knowing that we’d just met our beloved.
Or that we'd be here today - creating this invitation.
Amanda flew back to New York thinking, “What a beautiful human.”
Tom mailed her a love letter she had to read five times.
She thought, "Could this person who lives 2,600 miles away really be asking me for a relationship?"
Turns out - yes. And our LDR began.
Then there was the fun fact that Tom not only shared a name, but a birthday with Amanda’s dad.
🤯 We didn’t even try to figure that one out.
We just knew: this is what we had been waiting for.
From the beginning, our partnership was created with agreements, practices and plenty of shadow work - reliably resourcing (and triggering us), but keeping our connection clear and our attraction magnetic.
This didn’t happen by accident. It happened through intentional practice.
And that’s what we’re here to share.
You want to become so confident and easeful in the art of intimacy, that resistance is melted, magnetic connection is realized, and you trust surrendering into love
You are unwilling to just "see what happens" in your relationships because you know you are meant for an intentional path of connection that deepens, evolves and lasts
You want to learn how to stay when resistance arises - without collapsing or attacking - and move from conflict into even greater levels of connection
You want your relationship to liberate you and obliterate your outdated identities
You want to become your partner's deepest source of healing
You want to stop hesitating, so you can say what it is that you really want
You want to learn how to alchemize "yuck" into "yum", even if you're questioning everything
You want to create a field of love from within you so potent, that everyone around you can feel it
You want to claim the epic lover - the one you know you were born to be
You want to harness the power of your relationships as a portal for evolution, even at their most "meh"
You want to to trust your relationships as the exact medicine you need for your healing
You’re ready to be more real about what you most don’t want to be real about - so you can feel more alive with your partner, yourself and the world
All forms of relationships and intimacy are extremely valuable to you - whether you're currently partnered or single
You know that while being held in community can feel vulnerable - it’s far more powerful than trying to do this alone
You are willing to show up just as you are and trust that it will be just what is needed for this experience

Q # 1 - What if I’m single or come solo?
Whether you attend single or partnered, you’ll have the option to practice with someone. There is great value in this experience no matter what your relational status.
Q #2 - What if my partner can’t make it - will it still benefit our relationship?
Yes it will benefit you and your partner even if they can’t attend. These skills are transferable from you to all your relationships!
Q #3 - Will this container be focused on emotional processing?
We will be prioritizing sharing practices, providing the space in which to practice and then integrating new learning and insights that arise from our practice time. While we value emotions that may result from these practices, our time on the calls will not be heavily focused there and we encourage you to reach out to us directly if you need support with anything that is coming up for you in this program. We're here for you ❤️
Q #4 - Will there be an opportunity for coaching or Q&A?
Yes, we will offer space on every call (and in Telegram) for direct coaching and feedback. We want you to bring the questions, the confusion, the resistance - let us support you in moving through it - let's move with it, together.

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Together, we've dedicated decades to training and facilitation in sacred intimacy,
body-based healing modalities, Somatic Sex Education, attachment work,
wilderness guiding, and leading group spaces -
not to perfect a method, but to deepen our capacity for being human, with other humans.
And what we've found is this:
What most of us long for isn’t performance, it’s to be real -
about what we’re most afraid to be real about.
We want to be met in the fullness of our experience, even when we fear we’re too much.
We want to speak the desires we’ve tucked away, to name our needs—especially the ones that speak to our insecurities.
We want the kind of intimacy that blows us open, like a healing balm for our tired bodies.
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To create spaces that make this kind of intimacy possible for all genders, sexual identities, and relationship structures - spaces that center real honesty, safety, pleasure, and deep integration.
It’s an honor to guide you in this experience.
We can't wait to create this powerful field with you, so you can create the love that you long for.
WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
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